The Ketubah Signing Ceremony

The ketubah signing is a small, intimate ceremony that takes place shortly before the wedding itself. For many couples it is the emotional heart of the day: a quiet gathering of the people closest to them, before the crowd and the chuppah.

When it happens

The signing usually takes place just before the ceremony, often alongside the bedeken (veiling). The couple, officiant, witnesses and close family gather, the ketubah is read, and it is signed and witnessed.

Who signs

Traditionally, two witnesses sign the ketubah. In Orthodox practice they must meet specific halachic requirements and are typically not close relatives of either partner. In other traditions the couple and even guests may sign. Confirm exactly who should sign with your officiant well in advance.

What to bring

Bring the ketubah itself, kept flat and protected, and a reliable archival pen (ask your artist what suits their paper). Decide in advance who will hold and safeguard the document between the signing and the reception.

Making it meaningful

Many couples add a personal touch: a few words about what the document means to them, a moment of quiet, or a first look. Because it is small and unhurried, the signing is a chance to breathe before the celebration begins. Our signing checklist covers every practical detail so you can be fully present.